Solitude versus isolation.
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I enjoy traveling and living in RV, Travel Trailer, or even just my car and a tent.
Many full time vandwellers are often far from family and friends during the holidays.
Some like to get tougher with others, some prefer to be alone at this time of year.
Here's what my thoughts and actions are at that time of year.
First of all, I'm not Christian. Although the holidays are very secularised, they are basically Christian religious holidays. Make no mistake. I'm not anti-Christian. Feel free to say Merry Christmas and celebrate your holiday. I'll treat you with just as much respect as i do other religions.
I don't measure my happiness based on how many people send me cards or gifts while ignoring me the rest of the year. It reminds me of those who base their view of themselves based on how many Facebook friends, likes, shares, or reactions to their posts.
I pay attention to my friends online who are feeling down or alone. Often just a few words letting the person know that it's ok to not always be ok helps them get through a tough period. By the way, i do that all year around, not just during Christmas holidays.
I stock up on favorite foods and snacks. I find a place where i can legally park with free WiFi. I treat myself to a mini vacation from people and things. This is my time to myself to rest and recharge, a time of reflection and solitude.
Solitude is much different than loneliness. I'm grateful for all that i have and that the need for excessive things is not part of me. I remember that I'm lucky enough to have the luxury of choice, to not measure my worth based on possessions, but on experience and friends. I'm rich in that.
So rather than be blue about what you don't have this holiday season but be happy focused on how much you do actually have.
Good coffee to you. See you down the road
Lou (and Kira)
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I get tired of being online on social media. I also like going where there is no internet or cell signal.
So, what can you do for free entertainment?
I love having audio books on hand. My second favorite...the old time Radio drama serials. You can find many of them online and download for off grid listening. I'll often put one in while doing routine cleaning or organizing tasks. There are millions of books out there.
Don't discount the old battery operated walkman Cassette players. You can find old audio books cheap or free out there on cassette tape. I used to have a box that was 2 ft by 2 ft by 6 ft full of the old cassette audio books. Use the solar yard lights with AA battery as a solar battery charger. Borrow the cassette books on tape from a library. Copy using the old dual deck boom box. Listen at your leisure.
That old smartphone that's no longer hooked up to the internet, it's a cheap mp4 player now. Chances are you have one hidden away in a drawer. You can transfer movies, songs, and digital Audiobooks to it by usb cable from your laptop.
Taking photos. I bought a canon elp digital camera complete for $5 at a Flea market. It works great. It came with a 32gb SD card. Easy enough to slip in my Laptop and copy. I have an old universal battery charger that charges the battery.
Then there are crafts like knitting, crocheting, or weaving. You cut your old clothes and cloth items into one inch spirals. You roll them up like a ball. You ate them set up to crochet rugs, blankets, or weave. The old ways from our great great grandparents.
I can sit quietly for hours and watch the birds, the animals, the trees, and the lakes. I really believe that a half hour viewing the sunset or the sunrise is beneficial to anyone.
These are just a few of the things i do that are very cheap or free. Try some, see what works for you
See you down the road
Lou
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Getting stuck...snow or soft sand or mudholes
On my timeline, a friend has gotten stuck a couple of times in soft desert sands. I'm from Michigan. Had to be towed off 4 inch thick ice covered in snow.
Time to pass on a few things I know. This is one of the topics you want to prepare for but hope you never use.
Carry a couple of boards...you put under the drive tires. Older vans rear wheels
Cars and suv or minivan often front wheel drive.
Vehicles have steer tires (the front ) that turn and steer the vehicle. Drive tires move the vehicle down the road.some vehicles are front wheel drive, some rear wheel drive, some are 4x4, some are awd (all wheel drive)
Straighten tires so you're going straight forward or back
Carry a good tow strap.
Know how much your vehicle weighs. Any vehicle pulling you out needs tow capacity to pull your vehicle from dead weight. Vans 4000-6000 pounds.
If you have tow strap and boards...find someone from the snow belt to pull you out...we are kinda experienced at this.
Also look up and learn weight distribution...it's important
You can use floor mats, old carpet, or cardboard also to increase traction.
Partially deflating tires (carry a 12v tire pump and a tire gauge to reinflate them after getting "unstuck"